Cover your tracks

Click on the ‘Exit’ button on the right hand side of this website to quickly hide the page – it will direct you to the Google homepage.

How to clear your web history

Click on the ‘Exit’ button on the right hand side of this website to quickly hide the page – it will direct you to the Google homepage.

You will still need to delete your browsing history fully to cover your tracks.

We recommend using ‘private browsing’ mode when searching websites you don’t want someone else knowing about.

This mode doesn’t keep track of your activity, including search history and cookies once you’ve closed the tab.

Activate ‘private browsing’ on different search engines

  • Internet Explorer:
    Click the Safety button > select Tools > select ‘InPrivate Browsing’.
  • Safari:
    Click the File button > select ‘New Private Window’.
  • Chrome:
    Click the Menu button with three horizontal lines > select ‘New Incognito Window’.
  • Microsoft Edge:
    Click the three dots in the top right of the page > select ‘New InPrivate window’.
  • Firefox:
    Click the Menu button with three horizontal lines > select ‘New Private Window’.
  • Delete your search history:
    If you are accessing our website from a normal web browsing page, our website will still be traceable in your ‘history’.

You can erase this by going into the ‘history’ section of your browsing page, find any entries that say www.domesticabuseservices.org.uk, right-click on this and choose Delete.

Online safety

Staying safe online in crucial. Here are some key tips to help protect yourself online.

  • Install free anti-spy software for your computer.
  • If it is not possible to remove spyware without your abuser noticing, do not use it to access support sites.
  • Use a safe computer until yours has anti-spyware installed.
  • Use the internet somewhere other than at home; at a local library, a friend’s house, or at work, if possible.
  • Create new obscure, encrypted passwords and password-protect your computer.
  • Set your mobile so that you have a PIN to unlock it.
  • Use another mobile to make calls or if you are visiting a sensitive location.
  • Don’t use apps that use your location
  • Turn off geolocation and geotagging in mobile settings, camera and camera apps (and on any social media platforms you use).
  • Turn off Frequent Locations tracking.
  • Reset your phone to the factory settings to delete any spyware.
  • If you are fleeing an abusive situation, you should take the battery out until you are safe and do a factory reset (this would result in losing all contacts and data in the phone).
  • Ask your family and friends not to give out your number if you have a new phone. They can take a message and you can call back.
  • If you have to have contact with the abusive person, have a separate phone that you use just for contact with them (that you can turn off when needed).
  • Set up a new anonymous email address (i.e. don’t use your name).
  • Create multiple email accounts, if one becomes compromised you will still have access to the others.
  • Permanently delete an email by right-clicking it in the deleted items folder (Outlook, Gmail, Hotmail, Yahoo etc).
  • If you are receiving threatening or harassing emails, save them, make a copy or print them for evidence against the sender.

Social media and instant messaging safety

Read more about Social media and instant messaging safety
  • Delete your account and set up a new one with a different name and obscure photo.
  • Set your account to ‘private’ where possible.
  • Block your abuser and any mutual friends that you may have – you can also pre-empt other accounts they may have and block those too.
  • Only invite and follow trusted people.
  • Do not set up relationships in the account.
  • Ensure all of your access settings are set to “friends only”.
  • In direct messages, use the filter functions to automatically ignore, remove and block messages.
  • Set your account with the highest privacy settings, including turning geotagging to off/disabled and check your settings regularly.
  • Check to see if your photos are geotagged – go into your photo app, swipe up and see if a location has been added, remove the tags if necessary.
  • Control who can comment on your social media posts – remember that a friend of a friend can see comments they make.
  • Educate your children and people around you about the risks associated with
    social media.
  • Do not open any pop-ups that you were not expecting, these could contain spyware.

Revenge porn and intimate image sharing

Read more about Revenge porn and intimate image sharing
  • It is illegal to share or threaten to share revealing or intimate videos or pictures of someone without their consent.
  • Get help: Revenge Porn free helpline 0345 6000 459 or email: help@revengepornhelpline.org.uk visit www.revengepornhelpline.org.uk.
  • If you’re under 18 and a nude image or video of you has been shared online, you can report it to be removed from the internet: Report Remove | Childline. Call Childline 0800 1111 or visit ChildLine: sexting and nudes.

Hollie Guard – Personal Safety App is a free app that turns your smartphone into an advanced personal safety device. Alert your chosen person/people to distress and monitor travel, by shaking your phone to generate an alert, and information about your location. All data is stored on secure servers, not your
phone.

1 in 3

women in the UK have experienced online abuse at
some point in their lives (Refuge, 2021).

72%

of women accessing Refuge's services said that they had been subjected to technology-facilitated abuse (Refuge, 2020).

You are not alone.

There are people and services across Kent and Medway ready to support and help you.

…he was stalking my movements on WhatsApp. Which he did frequently.

If I didn't report into him when I was at work and I didn't report into him when he was trying to get hold of me, I'd be in for it.

Jane