In immediate danger call the police on 999.
Otherwise, to access specialist domestic abuse support call Victim Support on 0808 168-9111 or talk via Live Chat.

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There are a range of support services available across Kent and Medway that can provide advice to individuals experiencing domestic abuse. In addition there are a number of national domestic abuse specialist services that offer 24/7 telephone advice...

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Kent Integrated Domestic Abuse Service (KIDAS)

The Kent Integrated Domestic Abuse Service (KIDAS) offer a person centred, holistic range of support services to victims and their families in Kent, with support available including;

  • Safe refuge accommodation
  • Specialist Independent Domestic Violence Advisors (IDVA) support
  • Community Outreach Services
  • Therapeutic and group programmes (e.g. Freedom Programme)
  • Sanctuarys provision (adaptations to make the home safer)
  • Assistance with legal issues including seeking court orders and access to legal advice.
  • Emergency welfare assistance for clients in crisis (food, energy, travel)

Support can be accessed by contacting Victim Support for assessment and referral to your local service via the phone number below or the Live Chat facility.

You can also create a free account on My Support Space, an online resource containing interactive guides to help you manage the impact that crime has had on you.

Call

0808 168-9111

Open hours

24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year

One Stop Shop – West Kent

Domestic Abuse One Stop Shops offer free advice, information and support from a range of agencies under one roof to help victims of domestic abuse.  Domestic abuse can affect anyone and therefore, if you are a man or a woman and would like to discuss your issues, you are welcome to attend.

No appointment is required just turn up.

Open hours

Wednesdays: 9:30am - 12 Midday

Address

4 New Wharf Road, Tonbridge, Kent, TN9 1DS View map

Look Ahead

Look Ahead provide support to those experiencing domestic abuse in West Kent. Look Ahead provide refuge accommodation to support twenty three families who are not able to stay in their own homes and an IDVA service offering risk assessment, safety planning , advice, advocacy and support to court for high risk victims. Look Ahead provide emergency overnight accommodation, a Sanctuary Scheme for those wishing to stay in their own homes and a Welfare Fund for victims needing support with food, travel, furniture or white goods . Look Ahead funds a Cyber Stalking Clinic in partnership with protection Against Stalking and the Cyber Helpline.

Look Ahead run survivor programmes and offer training and consultancy to businesses and partners locally.

Call

03330 104660

Email

Website

https://www.lookahead.org.uk/

Open hours

Monday - Friday 9am - 5pm

DAVSS

Domestic Abuse Volunteer Support Service (DAVSS) is a West Kent volunteer based community charity supporting women and men experiencing domestic abuse. We operate in Sevenoaks District, Tonbridge & Malling and Tunbridge Wells Boroughs, from Swanley in the north, Edenbridge in the west, Aylesford in the east and Hawkhurst in the south. DAVSS professionally train volunteers from the local community to support victims (men & women) of Domestic Abuse. The support can be as little as listening and providing information  right through to assisting them through court.  We currently have 40 trained volunteers, supported and supervised by professional staff.  In the year April 2016 to March 2017 we supported 814 clients and their 1072 children, we ran 12-week Freedom programmes to equip victims to rebuild confidence and move on in their lives and DAY programmes in schools informing young people about respecting each other, healthy relationships and the impact of domestic abuse.

Address

PO Box 530, Tunbridge Wells, Kent TN2 9TB View map

Choices Domestic Abuse Service

Choices Domestic Abuse Service offers a range of services including a helpline offering advice and information, Independent Domestic Violence Advisors (IDVA) service,  supported accomodation for homeless young women, support groups and specialised family support.

Please click on the Choices weblink below for further information on which services are available in your area.

Beech House – Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC)

Beech House offers free support and practical help to anyone in Kent and Medway who has experienced sexual violence and/or sexual abuse.

Our clients can access Beech House via the Police and other professionals, as well as via the self referral pathway (booking an appointment at the SARC, without the Police).

At our SARC, individuals will be offered spport and guidance, a medical assessment/treatment, a forensic examination, and the opportunity of aftercare referrals for support services.

Clients will be offered these services based on their individual needs and can choose to use as much or as little of our service as they wish.

We will usually be able to offer you support, healthcare and aftercare advice if you are in Kent (including Medway) and if you have experienced sexual violence or sexual abuse.

We should also be able to offer you a forensic medical examination if the incident(s) occurred in the past 7 days.

Even if you dont know if we are the right service for you, please feel free to get in touch and we can either offer you an appointment or point you in the right direction of the appropriate service.

 

Call

01622 726461

Out of Hours: 0800 133 7432

Email

Website

https://www.beechhousesarc.org/

Open hours

Weekdays: 9am - 5pm
Out of Hours Number - 24 hours, 7 days a week

Address

​​Unit 7 and 8 North Court South Park Business Village Armstrong Road Maidstone Kent ME15 6JZ View map

Victim Support

We’re here to help anyone affected by crime, not only those who experience it directly, but also their friends, family and any other people involved. It doesn’t matter when the crime took place – you can get our support at any time, and for however long you need us.

We provide free and confidential support 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year for people affected by crime and traumatic events – regardless of whether you have reported the crime to the police.

The support services we offer are tailored to the needs of each person. These include:

  • Information and advice
  • Safety advice
  • Emotional and practical help
  • Advocacy
  • Personal safety services
  • Help in navigating the criminal justice system
  • Referral and signposting to partner agencies

Victim Support also provides the assessment and triage element for the Kent Integrated Domestic Abuse Services (KIDAS).

You can also use Live Chat facility to access support.

You can create a free account on My Support Space – an online resource containing interactive guides to help you manage the impact that crime has had on you.

Call

0808 168 9111

Website

https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/what-we-do/local-services/south-east/kent

Open hours

24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year

Phoenix Groups

Phoenix is a ten week psycho-educational programme that runs across Kent. It explores how to stay safe in and out of abusive relationships. The programme has been designed to be interactive, inclusive and educational.

We cover safety planning, the tactics used in an abusive relationships, the warning signs as well as personal boundaries and building healthy relationships in a way that is engaging and promotes self-care.

It is an emotional, but positive, empowering and social experience that helps people move past abuse to live healthier happier lives.

Freedom Programme

The Freedom Programme examines the roles played by attitudes and beliefs on the actions of abusive people and the responses of victims and survivors. The aim is to help them to make sense of and understand what has happened to them, instead of the whole experience just feeling like a horrible mess.

The Freedom Programme also describes in detail how children are affected by being exposed to this kind of abuse and very importantly how their lives are improved when the abuse is removed.

The programme usually lasts for 11 or 12 weeks and is FREE. It provided by hundreds of agencies across the UK. Some of them are rolling so you can join at any time but this varies according to local needs, etc.

Kent CDAP (Community Domestic Abuse Programme)

The Community Domestic Abuse Programme is a rolling programme of evening sessions designed to help men who feel their behaviour towards their partner has been, or is still, abusive.

CDAP challenges that behaviour and shows you how it affects your partner or ex-partner and any children that may be involved. We know it can be tough facing up to difficult problems. This programme will support you to make the changes you need to develop respectful, non-abusive relationships so that you are safe around your partner and any children.

The 27-week evening programme focuses on the intentions, beliefs and effects underpinning domestic abuse, including learning strategies for overcoming abusive and controlling behaviour. Partners of participants are supported throughout the programme.

The first step is to decide if you want to change your behaviour. After that, contact us and we will offer an interview to assess your suitability.